Monday, June 7, 2010

First encounters

6 days have passed since I arrived to Karachi, and have experienced many new things which have already made me appreciate the little things in life more.

In my first day I was pretty shocked about the child labour that is openly used here…have been boycotting child labour for over 10 years, and it really breaks my heart to see the kids on the streets and makes me want to rescue all of them…In my perspective it is wrong if I continue using child labour in the flat, but if I don’t do that the kid will end up on the street or to another flat where he can be abused, so it is very tough situation that I have never faced before!

In my second day I was going to local supermarket, where everyone kept staring me, and I got a group of child beggars after me when leaving the place, which is something that I’m getting used to,and they dont mean any harm and are just curious! In my office building I am one of the only women who work there, as not many women enter business life here…although many women are highly educated and go to university, majority of them end up being housewives due to the societal norms, which is really in contrast to Finland-where we have equality between the sexes and women in high positions like President, ministers, CEOs etc.

On my fourth day we went for a dinner with AIESEC people at Karachi Boat Basin, which is really nice place with a lot of restaurants, and was having troubles as I’m vegetarian and people generally eat a lot of meat here, and don’t understand the concept of being vegetarian, but I’m used to that, as the situation was very similar when living in Colombia! But it was lovely to see locals and relax with them…generally the life here is a lot more relaxed than in Finland, where people are workaholics and work so much that they hardly ever have time for hobbies, friends and family and it makes me wonder what are they working for? What is the purpose of gaining money, if you don’t ever have time to spend it to the holidays, house etc? Here people see they family and friends more often, hang out with them in the evenings, and live a more balanced life. Generally speaking, people here don’t complain about small things, but appreciate their life, though the living conditions might be very tough at times…unlike in Finland where people complain about the amount of the social welfare benefits and don’t realise that they are very lucky to get such benefits!

Saturday we were celebrating a friend’s birthday party, when the torrential rain started, as the cyclone that hit Oman and killed a lot of people, hit the Pakistani coast…luckily it had slowed down a lot, and we only experienced a thunder storm with a lot of rain and lightnings…we were by the beach and looking at the beautiful sky filled with approaching clouds, lightnings, and it was truly beautiful! As the rain stopped for a while, we rushed into the cars, but our cars got stuck after a huge pond of water, and had to wait for another car to pick us up…I was taking it very easy, as have faced very similar situation in Venezuela, when was on my way to see a friend in torrential rain, and car’s engine broke, and we got stuck in huge pond, where water was up to our knees…and in Colombia experienced huge thunder storm in my snorkeling trip in this small island where lightning struck few meters away from me and fell two trees…so after we got back to home, the interns flat was flooded, so together we took out the remaining water…interesting evening, indeed! Funnily enough, the storms in Venezuela and Colombia were the worst ones for two years, and Karachi hadn’t experienced such rain for a year…so I guess I bring the rain and thunder wherever I go!

But I love it here because it is so different, and people are super friendly, although strangers do stare at me all the time…but here I can actually relax, and take time for me, my hobbies and friends, as the life isn’t so hectic and people value free time and their friends and family differently than in Finland, where I’m always too busy, and working and have no time for hobbies and friends…so I have decided to start dance classes, karaoke, swimming here, as people here love dancing and karaoke!! Already have been hanging out in many cafes and enjoyed delicious food with awesome people, and every day you experience something new …for example due to the thunder storm we didnt have electricity or running water yesterday, but I’m already used to it and take these experiences as they come…will be very different year for sure!!;)

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